Wednesday, August 27, 2008

The paths which are easy to enter but difficult to exit

Well in life I think everybody wants to walk into the paths which are both easy to enter and exit. But many times it happens that we got the path knowingly or unknowingly which is very easy to enter but difficult to exit . These path may be risky also.

One such risky paths are smoking and drinking....... Many person just take these mere for fun only. Some indulge into these habits by peer pressure. Some enters into these to show their maturity, some says to release tension and may be more factors are there. Hey friends I m not saying these paths are wrong but if you enter in these then you should walk carefully to have a easy exit.

As everybody knows that alcohol is also treated as medicine in cold time . It is also served in social gatherings. This gives a good reason to support drinking. But always there is a limit in everything except ideas and sky. So as a responsible human being we should be inside the limit always.

Many intensive smokers and drinkers thinks in their own way. They think that what these will have effect in the life, may be 5 to 10 years of life reduction. No problem ,I will live 60 rather than 70. But by thinking in a different way I would say that these 5 to 10 years are very important in the context that even a microsecond is important for winning a 100 meter race in Olympic. May be these 5 to 10 years can bring great changes for your family , your society and your country in the coming years.

I don't says that smokers and drinkers are not good persons. Of-course they are very good in other respects. Even many of them also feels sometime trapped in this path which they have chosen just for trial basis. As said by me earlier some says tension and unexpected sad moments forced them to choose these paths , then they have to evaluate it again by considering how much tensions and unexpected sad moments they are bringing to the life of their loved ones. I think its an excuse only. If u want to come up from tension then please don't isolate yourself from the society. Take the concerns & help of your loved one . FIGHT WITH ODDS WITH DETERMINATION TO WIN OVER IT, NOT TO ACCEPT IT BY TAKING WRONG ROUTES.

I was continuously emphasizing from the beginning that the path is difficult to exit but that keeps an open statement that there is possibility for exit. Now that possibility lies with the walker itself. Only when his inner voice says him to leave then it becomes easy to exit from the path. We have to find the mediums for such entrapped persons to evoke their inner voice . May be your support in crucial stage of entrapped persons will become a good medium for resisting them not to enter into such paths. May be your love and care becomes the best mediums for their exodus from these dangerous paths. Here our responsibility starts to find suitable mediums.........
So are you ready for that.........................................................

Monday, August 25, 2008

who is the most beautiful in the world

Once Emperor Akbar asked to his courtiers that who is the most beautiful human in the world.
Everybody started guessing. Some says Ashwariya Rai, some says Imran Khan , some says Bipasa Basu . Likewise the list goes on with Abhisek Bachen, John Abrahim , Susmita Sen , Bablu Pehalwan , Sania Mirza vagara vagara.. . Some even went to impress the emperor saying he is the most beautiful person.
Then Akbar looked at Birbal . Birbal replied ..... Sir, the most beautiful human in the world is a child for her Mother.
Akbar got perplexed by hearing that and told Birbal to prove it.
Birbal asked one day for it.
Next day he was present in the darbar with a resident of the Kingdom. Akbar asked Birbal to prove his statement. Birbal told to follow him.
Birbal asked the person who is the most beautiful you think in this world. The person replied.... Sir, my son is most beautiful. Birbal asked to explain it ... He told, all the time my wife used to say to my son that he is the most beautiful and precious in the world.... mere chanda , mere lal vagara vagara.....
Moral of the story:- There is nothing more beautiful than the love between a mother and her child. If we carry atleast half of that love in our relationship to others we can make this world very beautiful.....